So on Sunday night I decided to wipe the table clean and start a speech from scratch. Rich and I felt that what I had was apropos for another stage. Hint hint. Like I said, we’re skiing on the same page.
The club contest is in 4 weeks and 5 days. So since Sunday, I got out my old list of “Lessons I Want Meaghan To Learn” since they are important to me.
Wanna see my List? In no particular order, things I am trying to teach my kid:
- Never Give Up
- Be authentically you.
- Be honest with yourself and others.
- Always give your best effort.
- Be compassionate.
- Crush fear with action.
- Know yourself.
- Always seek the Truth.
- Dream Big.
- Embrace humility.
- Don’t be afraid to speak up.
- Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
- Consider others before you act.
- Clean up your own messes.
- Share.
- Receive with grace.
- Give everyone a second chance.
- Carpe Diem.
- People trump numbers every time.
- When choosing your husband, don’t settle for less than wonderful.
- Never compromise your values.
- A smile can make a difference.
- Lead by example.
- Stand out from the crowd.
- Make a plan to make it happen.
- You are not your past.
- Trying to re-create a magic moment NEVER works.
- Keep your expectations of others to a minimum.
- Don’t judge a book by its cover. Read it.
- Don’t underestimate yourself.
- Always offer a hand.
- Don’t limit your vision.
- Expect miracles.
- Have fun.
- No regrets.
So I’ve been racking my ever lovin’ brain trying to think of stories that I like for some of these messages that resonate with me. Getting more and more panicky as the day draws nearer.
You might take note that it is 12 freakin’ fourty-two in the morning and I am supposed to be in BED. But as you also know my poor little brain has trained itself to have all of its good ideas after the bats fly.
(This is a serious conundrum. I need to be getting to my regular bedtime of 11:30 if my mind is to remain in good health as PMS approaches.)
Nevertheless, here I am, very very VERY TIRED but I have a speech here folks. And I like it. It makes me laugh and it choked me up too. It’s got suspense, drama and relatability and a message that everyone can use. It’s just 150 words too long.
Coach!
February 13, 2013 at 1:04 AM
Very exciting!
February 13, 2013 at 7:41 AM
Oooo – I’d love to see it!
Even back in high school, doing a précis of a piece (i.e. paring it down) was one of my favourite bits of study time. (As you can tell, I’m a word-nerd from way back.)
If you’d be willing to share even just some phrases (with key words removed or disguised), we could crowd-source this sucker!
If not, I understand.
Good luck with it all!
February 13, 2013 at 7:47 PM
Craig, I might be talked into sending a little bit your way because you are all the way in Australia.
thanks!
February 13, 2013 at 7:57 PM
If you did that, I would be honoured. (You could always try me on a couple of tricky sentences or phrases, and if you liked what you saw, we could take it from there.)
February 13, 2013 at 5:40 PM
ummm i LOVE the list of lessons you want to teach your daughter-particularly ‘you are not your past’ and ‘don’t underestimate yourself.’ thanks for sharing. i also love that you prepare your brain for PMS…because i do the same. keep up the hard work paula!
February 13, 2013 at 7:48 PM
thanks Chelsea! enjoy the sun!
February 13, 2013 at 7:54 PM
I have a feeling you have a winning speech on your hands